A Reader Asks: Is God against birthdays because it causes us to focus on SELF?
Question:Is God against birthdays because it causes us to focus on SELF?Answer:NO, God is not against birthdays generally speaking.Of course, God is against anything that becomes more important to us than He is, but we'll assume for the sake of this question, we're...
A Reader Asks: Over the last few days there have been quite a few commercials paid for by the Mormons that try to get …
Question:Over the last few days there have been quite a few commercials paid for by the Mormons that try to get people to believe that we are all going to RETURN to our home (HEAVEN) when we die. The person speaking states that the SCRIPTURES tell us that we were all...
A Reader Asks: According to the Mormons that I know, they believe that there will be sex in heaven. What does the Bible …
Question:According to the Mormons that I know, they believe that there will be sex in heaven. What does the Bible say about this?Answer:It seems to be a common thread with non-Christian religions to teach that sexual activity will be part of the next life, usually as...
A Reader Asks: I am brand new to your site. I learned about you through your post on Kayleigh’s web site. I think …
Question:I am brand new to your site. I learned about you through your post on Kayleigh's web site. I think it was wonderful what you posted for the Freemans. As I was reading some of the comments from those who have donated, I was a little concerned that a few of...
A Reader Asks: What is the meaning of John 8:59?
Question:What is the meaning of John 8:59?Answer:John 8:58-59 Jesus said to them, "Most assuredly, I say to you, before Abraham was, I AM." Then they took up stones to throw at Him; but Jesus hid Himself and went out of the temple, going through the midst of them, and...
A Reader Asks: Is it true that animals will not be in heaven because they are beneath man and do not have souls? I …
Question:Is it true that animals will not be in heaven because they are beneath man and do not have souls? I have a hard time believing that God would create all of these innocent creatures for the service of man and then not consider them beyond this life. After all,...
A Reader Asks: I need your advice on a question. I am a practicing christian and met a woman who is not and professed …
Question:I need your advice on a question. I am a practicing christian and met a woman who is not and professed her faith to be Buddhist. I want to marry and settle and have prayed several times but not sure whether God is anwering or not. Please let me know your take...
A Reader Asks: My husband and I were thinking about sponsoring a child that was orphaned from the tsunamis which would …
Question:My husband and I were thinking about sponsoring a child that was orphaned from the tsunamis which would only cost us $32.00 per month. Then, I was talking to a Christian friend about this and she replied, "You can't do that, you don't even tithe!" Now, I know...
A Reader Asks: Do we really want people thinking God is an angry wrathful God ready to punish us? Don’t we want a balanced …
Question:Do we really want people thinking God is an angry wrathful God ready to punish us? Don't we want a balanced view? How will people who have been abused response to this "angry parent" picture? What about those who have had a bad experience with Christianity?...
A Reader Asks: Why don’t you believe in Apostles operating today? Why should the verses about “some being Apostles” …
Question:Why don't you believe in Apostles operating today? Why should the verses about "some being Apostles" be split up into "that was for then" and "this is for today"?Answer:I could give you a long theological answer about "cessationism" but many people have...
A Reader Asks: I’m going through a rough time in my marriage and I think my spouse wants a divorce and doesn’t want …
Question:I'm going through a rough time in my marriage and I think my spouse wants a divorce and doesn't want to try anymore. My counselor said I should be saying "binding prayers" and binding Satan from our marriage. Something about that just doesn't sit well with...
A Reader Asks: I’m going through a rough time in my marriage and I think my spouse wants a divorce and doesn’t want …
Question:I'm going through a rough time in my marriage and I think my spouse wants a divorce and doesn't want to try anymore. My counselor said I should be saying "binding prayers" and binding Satan from our marriage. Something about that just doesn't sit well with...
A Reader Asks: Should I go see a Christian counselor about my problems in life?
Question:Should I go see a Christian counselor about my problems in life?Answer:I have some specific and strong opinions on this topic which tend to cause me much grief the day after I publish them. So I'll answer now, and get the Excedrin ready for tomorrow...Much,...
A Reader Asks: Are there inconsistencies in the Bible? Which “Ten Commandments” are *the* Ten Commandments – the ones …
Question:Are there inconsistencies in the Bible? Which "Ten Commandments" are *the* Ten Commandments - the ones listed at Exodus 20 and Deuteronomy 5, or the ones listed at Exodus 34?Answer:Are there inconsistencies? Yes, no. (more about that in a minute!) Will I...
A Reader Asks: God is omnipotent, would not He preserve a true text of His Word for His children? There is too many …
Question:God is omnipotent, would not He preserve a true text of His Word for His children? There is too many Bibles..... & people ask, "which one is the Word of God?" Man keeps trying to create the "original autographs" & look where it has got them......Confusion....
A Reader Asks: Brent, One of the requirements of a church Elder is he has to be married to one woman. Does this mean …
Question: Brent, One of the requirements of a church Elder is he has to be married to one woman. Does this mean people who have been divorced and remarried, that have become mature Christians in their walk with Christ are not qualified to be elders? or, does it mean...
A Reader Asks: What about predestion, election, Calvinism, Arminianism… things like that? Its seems that everyone …
Question:What about predestion, election, Calvinism, Arminianism... things like that? Its seems that everyone insists you be on one side or the other? Is that necessary? Can we really have a dogmatic position on these issues?Answer:Well there are alot of mysterious,...
A Reader Asks: I need some Bible reference points and verses in talking with teeneagers about why God does not want …
Question:I need some Bible reference points and verses in talking with teeneagers about why God does not want us to get piercings and tatooes please.Answer:Well if you are looking for some absolute commandment or a verse that says "tattoos and piercings (other than...
A Reader Asks: Do you think people who claim to be Christians but never enter a church door to worship or tithe a dime …
Question:Do you think people who claim to be Christians but never enter a church door to worship or tithe a dime are really christians? Their whole world revolves around themselves and family. I have close family members like this and am very concerned for...
A Reader Asks: Where does sin come from? How did Satan know to commit sin, if it had not already existed?
Question:Where does sin come from? How did Satan know to commit sin, if it had not already existed? Answer:First of all, sin is not a "thing" in the sense that Satan or Man saw it one day, and chose to "commit it". Sin is the violation of what God says is "right". God...
A Reader Asks: Be angry, but do not sin. Had a discussion at a Bible study. I said anger is good, and is natural. …
Question:Be angry, but do not sin. Had a discussion at a Bible study. I said anger is good, and is natural. Another guy said we are to love everyone regardless, and have to get over anger immediately. I disagreed. He is fairly knowledgeable and truly believed what he...
A Reader Asks: In heaven, will we still have a special love and relationship with people like our parents, kids or …
Question:In heaven, will we still have a special love and relationship with people like our parents, kids or spouse?Answer:I believe so.Heaven is a continuation of our life, a transition to the eternal. Our memories, personalities and relationships endure. You are...
A Reader Asks: Does the bible have all the answers for everything? Is the bible written by God, or is it written by …
Question:Does the bible have all the answers for everything? Is the bible written by God, or is it written by Humans? Is the bible true, both the old and the new testament? Is the bible open for interpretation? I get these questions a lot when I tell people I am a...
A Reader Asks: Are there really any grounds for divorce in the Bible? I’ve read so many different opinions on this. …
Question:Are there really any grounds for divorce in the Bible? I've read so many different opinions on this. If you are a Christian and you have gotten a divorce and remarried a non-christian, how do you make it right with God beyond asking for forgiveness?Answer:You...
A Reader Asks: If someone continually sins against you and does not repent, are we still to forgive? I know we are …
Question:If someone continually sins against you and does not repent, are we still to forgive? I know we are not to take revenge, but doesn't forgiveness require repentance?Answer:First let's answer how many times you, as a Christian are required to forgive:As a...
A Reader Asks: Would you please explain John 14:13-14. We talked about it in Church today but nobody really explained …
Question:Would you please explain John 14:13-14. We talked about it in Church today but nobody really explained it well.Answer:John 14:13-14 And whatever you ask in My name, that I will do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you ask anything in My name, I...
Saving Faith: Tests & Evidence That are NOT Proof – Part 2
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)1 John 5:13 These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God.2...
Saving Faith: Tests & Evidence – Part 1
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)1 John 5:13 These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life, and that you may continue to believe in the name of the Son of God.2...
Trusting & Leaning: Answers
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; Proverbs 3.5 Last time I showed you the verse above and asked you a bunch of questions to think about. I thought about them too. Here's my answers... I may not always live them perfectly,...
Trusting & Leaning
Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding; Proverbs 3.5 When?When things are bad? Really bad? Tragically bad?When we've tried everything else? When our first reactions and instincts proved ineffective? When we've exhausted the...
Good Sense Offense
Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense. Proverbs 19:11 Two of the traits I notice most on the rise in our culture are anger and being offended. It makes sense because both are deep seated in pride and selfishness, the two most...
Resting & Learning
Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” Matt 11:28-30 Every day I get...
Hope or No Hope – Part 4
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)(Lam 3:25) - "... I will call to mind and therefore have hope". (NKJV) IF a certain condition is met THEN Something specified occurs ELSE The other specified thing occurs. I'm not trying to come up with some...
Crowns or Death – Part 3
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)(James 1:12) - Blessed is the man who endures temptation; for when he has been approved, he will receive the crown of life which the Lord has promised to those who love Him. (NKJV) IF a certain condition is met...
The February Issue of Serious.Life Magazine is Now Online
The February issue of Serious.Life Magazine is online!I hope you'll take a minute and go check it out. The magazine is just getting better and better every month. All of the ads for ministries and Christianity charity work are FREE.This month the feature article is...
If… Then… Else: Slaves – Part 2
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)(Romans 6:1) - 1What shall we say, then? Shall we go on sinning so that grace may increase? (NKJV) IF a certain condition is met THEN Something specified occurs ELSE The other specified thing occurs. I'm not...
Programming the Christian Life – Part 1
(Click here to search for all the posts in this series...)(2 Timothy 2:15) - Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who does not need to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. (NKJV) As a programmer and web developer, I often see parallels...
The World is Full of Faith-Filled Sick People
(Lamentations 3:21-24) - This I recall to my mind, Therefore I have hope. Through the LORD’s mercies we are not consumed, Because His compassions fail not. They are new every morning; Great is Your faithfulness. “ The LORD is my portion,” says my soul, “ Therefore I...
What Causes Us To Be Evil, Bitter, Sensual and Confused?
(James 3:14-16) - But if you have bitter envy and self-seeking in your hearts, do not boast and lie against the truth. This wisdom does not descend from above, but is earthly, sensual, demonic. For where envy and self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are...
How Can We Know Who Is Wise and Who Has Understanding?
(James 3:13) - Who is wise and understanding among you? Let him show it by his good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. (NKJV) Ask 100 people today: how do you know who is wise and full of understanding? You'll probably get these types of...
It’s Not About Death, It’s about God’s Glory – Would You Pray For Abby and Let Others Know About Her?
For the past few days, we have been asking everyone to ask everyone they know to join us in praying for Abby, and for God to be glorified through this troublesome journey. We aren't trying to focus on death, or the negative aspects because we feel hopeless... we just...
Does It Matter If More People Pray for Abby? Can We Force God to Do What We Want?
I was asked today why getting more and more people to pray for Abby does any good. Does a thousand prayers get God moving more than one, or ten?James 5:16 ...the prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.In context, this verse follows a series of questions:...
Abby: More Times For Faith Are Coming
(Abby slept peacefully after a very rough procedure on Friday that left her in much pain.)“Hell”… that is the word Abby’s doctor used to describe the 60 days of treatment that starts on Wednesday.Lamentations 3:22-23 Because of the LORD's great love we are not...
Quit Tripping Over That Tongue
(James 3:2) - We all stumble in many ways. If anyone is never at fault in what he says, he is a perfect man, able to keep his whole body in check. (NKJV) We ALL stumble in many ways. Some won't admit it, either to themselves or to others. It doesn't matter. We ALL...
Video of Abby 2008 – Opportunity to Have Faith In God During Tough Times
I had the blessing of getting to share with our church family this morning about the many blessings God has showered on us during 2008.As I get older, as I write more, teach more, and hear from you more, I realize that very often God's greatest blessings come during...
Update on Our Daughter Abby
We got a call late last week that our Doctor wanted to consult with us. Never good... Here's the short version about this latest development with Abby:8% of the population has a specific genetic variation... That variation is NOT a factor in getting...
Jesus – The Gold Medalist
A reader wrote this kind note to me: You are quite amazing with the faith you demonstrate when things are out of your control. You make them seem (to some degree) as if they are in control: the control of the Almighty God. You should be in contention for a medal in...
Judgment Without Mercy
For judgment is without mercy to the one who has shown no mercy. Mercy triumphs over judgment. (NKJV) If you are not a secret service Christian, you will often hear "the Bible says don't judge!" in response to any standard, principle or commandment that goes against...
Get Implanted
James 1:21 Therefore lay aside all filthiness and overflow of wickedness, and receive with meekness the implanted word, which is able to save your souls. (NKJV) James gets on my nerves. He constantly uses words like "all" and "every" which doesn't leave me any wiggle...
The Wrath of Chocolate Pie
James 1:19-20 So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. (NKJV) You ever run across Bible verses you dread talking about, or teaching about because you...
